Well first off, I don't understand why anyone would want to stay with a man who has cheated on them. I've been though this...and I dealt with this very situation. Stupid me. Once a cheater always a cheater ladies...no matter how hard you try to forget about it, its always going to be there.
Things You’ll Need:

* Will Power
* A set of balls
* an open mind
* an open heart

Step1
Well first you and your husband need to sit down and talk about the situation. You need to ask him, what he saw in her that he didn't see in you. Whatever he says is going to make you angry and break your heart, but remember you are the one who wants to save the relationship, so be prepared for the worst. The only way that you are going to be able to save the relationship is if the two of you get down to the nitty gritty of what all of your problems are. Why is he straying off to some stranger looking for pleasure? Maybe the two of you should consider counseling. Or just break it off if the problems are really deep and are only getting worse if you decide to try and make it work.

Step2
Now it is unlikely that you are ever going to come across the woman unless its a close friend, a relative, or you are being a stalker. In most cases, situations like the make us stalk the other woman out more so than even the man of the relationship. Our minds get all crazy and we tend to focus on the lady that our man has been seeing/sleeping with behind your back! You want to confront her so bad...but you don't know how. Well its simple. Go up to her and ask..."how could you?" She will probably panic...but you have to remember ladies...ITS NOT TOTALLY HER FAULT! So back off...leave her alone. If she is a close friend then its a different situation, but pulling the crazy card might get you into some trouble, and your guy might think you are a little crazy as well and will not want to stick around.

Step3
Now with that said and done. Its time to focus on your marriage/relationship. Does your guy want to even make it work? Or does he want to run off and be with this other woman. Are you willing to compromise to fix the problems in your relationship? Or are you going to continue to dwell on the situation and badger him every time you think about the incident? Are you seriously able to forgive someone for forsaking your "LOVE" for one another? Ask yourself these questions and really consider if you want to stick around for the possibility of being cheated on again because your guy isn't happy.

Step4
Recovery. Say it doesn't work out, because in an ideal world it typically doesn't. Eventually this whole cheating incident will eat at your relationship. Instead of looking for a new man right away, look for a hobby. Get in contact with all of those girlfriends you put behind because you were too busy catering to the man who was cheating on you all of that time. YOGA. THE GYM. KICK BOXING. COLLEGE CLASSES. Something to keep you focused on your life in a positive way. No one wants to sit at home crying all day long, fattening up on box after box of chocolate. No one wants to sit there and pig out on ice cream either. Make yourself as attractive as possible. Put yourself out there. Hit up the clubs with your lady friends, and find a new man who isn't going to treat you like a piece of meat. This is the chance to start over, why miss out?